Comments for Sometimes it's easier to just pretend. http://anndreeuhh.wordpress.com A simple girl exploring life. Sun, 07 Dec 2008 13:11:39 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on It can only get better from here. by Brianne http://anndreeuhh.wordpress.com/2008/12/05/it-can-only-get-better-from-here/#comment-9 Brianne Sun, 07 Dec 2008 13:11:39 +0000 http://anndreeuhh.wordpress.com/?p=33#comment-9 Oh man, it must have hurt so much for them not to show up. Do you think maybe they regret it now? Anyway, Rob must be very conflicted. You two definitely need to talk - he SHOULDN'T take his frustration out on you, but maybe he doesn't know what else to do to make himself feel validated. You'll have to try and help him in a calm way. Perhaps yelling at you is easier than admitting how much he's hurt or easier than talking about eventually healing the relationship with his parents. Eh, what do I know. Anyway, he shouldn't yell at you - I hope you guys can learn to communicate more effectively. Oh man, it must have hurt so much for them not to show up. Do you think maybe they regret it now? Anyway, Rob must be very conflicted. You two definitely need to talk – he SHOULDN’T take his frustration out on you, but maybe he doesn’t know what else to do to make himself feel validated. You’ll have to try and help him in a calm way. Perhaps yelling at you is easier than admitting how much he’s hurt or easier than talking about eventually healing the relationship with his parents.
Eh, what do I know. Anyway, he shouldn’t yell at you – I hope you guys can learn to communicate more effectively.

]]> Comment on dreams by Brianne http://anndreeuhh.wordpress.com/2008/12/05/dreams/#comment-8 Brianne Sun, 07 Dec 2008 12:57:08 +0000 http://anndreeuhh.wordpress.com/?p=36#comment-8 That's so cool! Congrats on winning the contest! That’s so cool! Congrats on winning the contest!

]]> Comment on What’s in the water? by anndreeuhh http://anndreeuhh.wordpress.com/2008/11/18/whats-in-the-water/#comment-7 anndreeuhh Wed, 19 Nov 2008 14:14:31 +0000 http://anndreeuhh.wordpress.com/?p=23#comment-7 I've never even heard of that before! I'll have to check it, thanks. Good luck and lots of baby dust for you as well! I’ve never even heard of that before! I’ll have to check it, thanks. Good luck and lots of baby dust for you as well!

]]> Comment on What’s in the water? by Dez http://anndreeuhh.wordpress.com/2008/11/18/whats-in-the-water/#comment-6 Dez Wed, 19 Nov 2008 08:33:35 +0000 http://anndreeuhh.wordpress.com/?p=23#comment-6 Hey, I know what you're going through. This entry sounds like something I would write, except that we are trying. I've read on numerous PCOS communities that taking a vitamin supplement called Vitex has helped women get their periods on track and conceive. It might be something ti look into. I just started, so I can't really say, "Hey, i've done it." I wish you the best and will keep my fingers crossed for you. Hey, I know what you’re going through. This entry sounds like something I would write, except that we are trying. I’ve read on numerous PCOS communities that taking a vitamin supplement called Vitex has helped women get their periods on track and conceive. It might be something ti look into. I just started, so I can’t really say, “Hey, i’ve done it.”

I wish you the best and will keep my fingers crossed for you.

]]> Comment on Beginning of the rest of my life by Lindsay http://anndreeuhh.wordpress.com/2008/08/19/beginning-of-the-rest-of-my-life/#comment-5 Lindsay Wed, 20 Aug 2008 03:23:05 +0000 http://anndreeuhh.wordpress.com/?p=8#comment-5 That is AWFUL that you felt that way and were treated that way at YOUR OWN WEDDING! Geez, that is definitely (at least) one day in your freakin' life that you should be treated like an absolute queen. : / And ughhhhhh . . . Rob's parents need to get over themselves, PERIOD. It's not like you're some random chick that he just met last week and is marrying! Reading all of this just made me SO FURIOUS . . . I definitely don't blame you for getting upset and mad. Everything else aside, congratulations! : ) That is AWFUL that you felt that way and were treated that way at YOUR OWN WEDDING! Geez, that is definitely (at least) one day in your freakin’ life that you should be treated like an absolute queen. : /

And ughhhhhh . . . Rob’s parents need to get over themselves, PERIOD. It’s not like you’re some random chick that he just met last week and is marrying! Reading all of this just made me SO FURIOUS . . . I definitely don’t blame you for getting upset and mad.

Everything else aside, congratulations! : )

]]> Comment on Beginning of the rest of my life by anndreeuhh http://anndreeuhh.wordpress.com/2008/08/19/beginning-of-the-rest-of-my-life/#comment-4 anndreeuhh Tue, 19 Aug 2008 18:32:53 +0000 http://anndreeuhh.wordpress.com/?p=8#comment-4 thanks aidan, that is a much better way to look at things, and i'm sure in time i will. it's hard right now, but everything you said is very true. The bee and his brother was HILARIOUS. I'm hoping the photographer got a picture of it! and thanks hsoo, you know all of the back story with rob and his parents! ugh! thanks aidan, that is a much better way to look at things, and i’m sure in time i will. it’s hard right now, but everything you said is very true. The bee and his brother was HILARIOUS. I’m hoping the photographer got a picture of it!

and thanks hsoo, you know all of the back story with rob and his parents! ugh!

]]> Comment on Beginning of the rest of my life by Aidan http://anndreeuhh.wordpress.com/2008/08/19/beginning-of-the-rest-of-my-life/#comment-3 Aidan Tue, 19 Aug 2008 15:56:07 +0000 http://anndreeuhh.wordpress.com/?p=8#comment-3 I'm sorry that you feel like you had a horrible time at your own wedding. There is no way to go back and change what had happened or how you felt. Instead of thinking about the negatives, try thinking about everything that went well... your guests had a great time, the ceremony was beautiful, people were up dancing at the reception. I've been to weddings where nobody was dancing.... I had to take matters into my own hands and act like a wild women on the dance floor to bring out more people. The things I do for my friends! The bee dive bombing your brother in law is funny when you think about it. He was applogenic (sorry) that he kept freaking out over the bee. I would be doing the same thing as I am terrified of those little buggers. I do not think the fact that Rob's parents did not show cause the horrible feeling though out the entire day. When I do not eat right it ruins my whole day, so that could have just started you off on the wrong foot. Just focus on the positives of your day, instead of what went wrong. You and Rob are together forever, and your wedding day is just one day. Your guests I am sure did not even notice the tension cause because of Robs parents not showing up. I’m sorry that you feel like you had a horrible time at your own wedding. There is no way to go back and change what had happened or how you felt. Instead of thinking about the negatives, try thinking about everything that went well… your guests had a great time, the ceremony was beautiful, people were up dancing at the reception. I’ve been to weddings where nobody was dancing…. I had to take matters into my own hands and act like a wild women on the dance floor to bring out more people. The things I do for my friends!

The bee dive bombing your brother in law is funny when you think about it. He was applogenic (sorry) that he kept freaking out over the bee. I would be doing the same thing as I am terrified of those little buggers.

I do not think the fact that Rob’s parents did not show cause the horrible feeling though out the entire day. When I do not eat right it ruins my whole day, so that could have just started you off on the wrong foot.

Just focus on the positives of your day, instead of what went wrong. You and Rob are together forever, and your wedding day is just one day. Your guests I am sure did not even notice the tension cause because of Robs parents not showing up.

]]> Comment on Beginning of the rest of my life by Hsoolien http://anndreeuhh.wordpress.com/2008/08/19/beginning-of-the-rest-of-my-life/#comment-2 Hsoolien Tue, 19 Aug 2008 04:09:31 +0000 http://anndreeuhh.wordpress.com/?p=8#comment-2 Wow, sorry it turned out so badly. It sucks how some people just can't get over themselves and allow someone else to be happy. Perhaps overtime it will become one of those stories all couples have of bad days that really just don't count because at least you made it. Good luck to the both of you. Wow, sorry it turned out so badly. It sucks how some people just can’t get over themselves and allow someone else to be happy. Perhaps overtime it will become one of those stories all couples have of bad days that really just don’t count because at least you made it.

Good luck to the both of you.

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